Why You Should Take Nudes
I have always been a proponent of risque photography — whether it be in the context of a full-fledge photoshoot or the one taken in front of your bathroom mirror, I am a fan. In fact, I have an entire ‘photo vault’ on my phone of my best poses, angles, and assets in case I ever get flirtatious in conversation and am less than ready for my close-up.
Many people wonder why women do this. It isn’t like every man has an archive of dick pics in his phone so why do women have an entire album of options for sexting? The answer: Because she should and because you should too, men.
I take nudes for me first and for the other person second.
Let’s face it, we won’t send the ones we don’t feel sexy in and we take at least two or three before getting to one that we feel confident enough in to share. You’ve got the angles that work during that time of the month and the ones you have saved for the moments when you feel less attractive. For me, I keep my dirty pics around for my own pleasure (not literally, of course). I don’t fondle my clit at the sight of my own ass, but I do revert back to those pictures when I am looking for motivation to go to the gym or confidence in moments where I feel most unattractive.
Candidly speaking, those pictures will take me from head hanging low to head held high status in a matter of seconds. I find it hard to believe it can’t do the same for others.
Think about it, women and men take boudoir photos for all kinds of reasons — none of which are frowned upon. Women go for photoshoots all the time where they are decked to the nine in lingerie, then decorated with makeup and emphasized in light that flatters every curve on their body.
You don’t have to have a fancy studio, expensive lingerie, or a professional hair and makeup artist to make you feel your sexiest. Create your own nude photo spread and incorporate all kinds of angles and suggestive poses, some focusing on the front, while others accentuate specific parts in back. After a while, you will identify a ‘go-to’ photo that makes you feel your absolute best!
If you feel less than confident in every single one of them, then use the pictures as a starting point and track your progress from there. Don’t like the way your ass looks in a picture? Hold the photo, do the squats, and continue to document your improvements in the same titillating fashion.
You are sexy and sometimes, a little self-made imagery can encourage true belief in that for yourself.