Sex is the most natural thing in the world and yet it is the least talked about.

Image for post
Image for post
Photo by Dainis Graveris of Unsplash

The world treats sex as a taboo and goes about doing things without even knowing, yet it is one of the most natural (if not the most natural) behaviors we encounter as humans. Below are 20 facts about sex that you likely never knew before today:

  1. An average healthy man can ejaculate enough sperm in two weeks to impregnate every woman in the world.

He wouldn’t have sex with me so I pretended I was having sex with his ex.

Image for post
Image for post
Photo by Artem Labunsky of Unsplash

Don’t let the title and subtitle of this one mislead you; that is exactly what happened. I can remember the day vividly as the decision to get off to the person your boyfriend used to get off to doesn’t really disappear from memory easily.

My boyfriend was sitting on the couch, playing a video game with a few of his friends, and giving me the short end of the attention stick. …


Besides stealing all of the covers and leaving 1/4 inch of bed for him to sleep on.

Image for post
Image for post
Photo by Dainis Graveris of Unsplash

We all have made mistakes during sex and no one is immune to making them. We can; however, receive warranted shit if we know where we go wrong and still choose to continue with the same behavior. So, to save the men out there some time and the women out there some rejection, here are 5 of the most common ways females fuck up in bed (according to men):

1. Being too rough with his penis.

  • “Grinding too hard on my penis.”


Fellas, this one’s for you.

Image for post
Image for post
Photo by Dainis Graveris of Unsplash

I’ve been single for the past few months and what I mean by that is — the action in my bedroom (and every other room in the house) has been truly non-existent. While I could redirect my attention to the contact list in my phone, I would dare to embark on a ‘follow up’ journey with many of them as several check the boxes for things women really wish men would stop doing in the bedroom.

Listen up, fellas:

1. Fingering us like they lost something in the dark

There have been far too many times when I’ve compared a guy’s choice of finger action to a pelvic exam. I…


You may want to go incognito for this one.

Image for post
Image for post
Photo by Roman Samborskyi

“Hey Babe” (Dominatrix):

“She flicked off the lights and pushed him against the wall. A frame fell face down on the floor and shattered next to them. She didn’t allow him to take notice. She bit at his bottom lip, tugging his face, commanding him to follow her lead as she walked backwards down the hallway, deeper into the darkness, her darkness. And he, submitting to her bestial strength, simply weaved his fingers into the rust of her hair and bowed to her dominion. Like a lowly, unassuming insect, captivated by her hellfire glow.

Halfway down the hall, she slammed him back first…


And why you don’t have to share them

Image for post
Image for post
Photo by Dainis Graveris of Unsplash

I have always been a proponent of risque photography — whether it be in the context of a full-fledge photoshoot or the one taken in front of your bathroom mirror, I am a fan. In fact, I have an entire ‘photo vault’ on my phone of my best poses, angles, and assets in case I ever get flirtatious in conversation and am less than ready for my close-up.

Many people wonder why women do this. It isn’t like every man has an archive of dick pics in his phone so why do women have an entire album of options for…


It’s not you, it’s me.

Image for post
Image for post
Photo by Charles Deluvio of Unsplash

Some facts of life are sad but true — one of those facts being that climaxing for many women isn’t easy. In fact, the Cleveland Clinic reports that a mere 10% of women can easily achieve an orgasm. The other 90% have to deal with a lot of outside factors from what position they’re in to what they might do all day at work. These factors alone may be inhibiting your ability to get off.

Orgasming for men is generally pretty straight forward, but for many of us women, it’s a whole different ball game. Every woman is built differently…


Coming from a fake orgasm virgin herself.

Image for post
Image for post
Photo by Artem Labunsky of Unsplash

There seems to be this tall tale that if a woman is climaxing at a rate deemed more frequent than average, then she must be faking at least one of them.

Well, think again.

As a woman who has yet to feed the ego of the man thrusting into her with kudos of pleasure-giving performance based on false information, I can assure you that this theory does not apply to all of us. …


It’s called “Auralism” and what you don’t see is what you get.

Image for post
Image for post
Photo by Emiliano Vittoriosi of Unsplash

Lately, I have been especially attuned with a very specific fetish of mine. This fetish is one many obtain, yet few know exists. Auralism is a sexual fetish defined as sexual arousal or excitement caused by sound. This fetish can range from the sound of ASMR-style videos of people eating crunchy foods all up to the sound of a person’s ultimate climax. For me, it is the sound of sexual pleasure itself that gets me going.

As a person with an unignorable sex drive, I have become particularly comfortable with my own body and the things I know set me…


It was my dirty little secret for over a year.

Image for post
Image for post
Photo by Jon Tyson of Unsplash

We all have our own kinks and fetishes — none of which we should apologize for. For me, I have always loved voyeurism — the idea of watching and/or being watched in a secretive and inconspicuous way — specifically as it relates to sexual pleasure (the sounds of sexual pleasure). Auralism is what some would call it. So imagine the chaos within my libido when I first heard the neighbors in the apartment above mine indulging in one another. The sounds, the headboard, the moaning, the yelling, the climactic screams — I couldn’t get enough.

The first time I heard…

Averie London

Shedding light on the activities typically kept in the dark.

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store