10 Things Men Want In Bed, But Will Never Ask For

Suggested by men, created for women.

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At first, when I began asking around to different men, sex therapists, and experts in the field what men want in the bedroom, but are too afraid to ask for, I expected to get a series of wild sex positions and unrealistic superhuman erotica, but what I found was far more intriguing — though it did mention more blow jobs, but that should come as no surprise.

Here’s what men really want in bed.

Your Real Orgasm

Men are tired of women faking it in the bedroom. If he isn’t hitting the right spot to give you a leg-shaking orgasm then direct him to the place that will. Men aren’t psychic and just as we prefer a little direction when we are pleasing a man, they would like the same. Not to mention, a man knowing he made you climax is a sure boost to the ego.

Being The Little Spoon

Men find it difficult to express emotions; therefore, it is your responsibility to make sure your man is comfortable enough to ask for the little emotional things in bed that you might somehow surpass, just because he has never mentioned that before. One of these things includes being held.

Despite the stigma that females are fit for the role of little spoon, sometimes a man appreciates switching this up a bit. From the feedback received, being the little spoon introduces comfort to a man’s feeling and security. Though this won’t be something he likely opens up about.

Being Teased

Men love a good tease — whether it be a text message, a sexy photo in the middle of the workday, or a voicemail to let them know you’re thinking about them in a sexy way is a major turn on for a man. The more you can drive him wild from a distance, the greater the build-up and we all know how good it can be when you’ve been waiting all day for it. Let them know you’re touching yourself at the mere thought of what’s to take place later on.

This doesn’t have to just take place while you two are away from one another either. Don’t you think it would be fun (even for you) if you were to walk around the house and intentionally brush your hand against his crotch, giving him a…